tracked down an Oklahoman woman, Jill Lopez, who was born on the same day as Ennis and resembled Jones. It took a little convincing, but eventually, Lopez agreed to take a DNA test.
The test results confirmed everyone's darkest fears — Lopez showed up in Jones's family tree and was swapped at birth with Ennis. Fifty-five years ago, Ennis and Lopez went home from the hospital with the other's biological families.
THE BRISTER FAMILY
Lopez grew up in a rural area of Oklahoma with Joyce and John Brister, a stay-at-home mother and a father who worked in the oil industry. She had elder sisters, some close friends, and a grandmother who lived nearby.
Later on, she moved to Lawton, where she was contacted by Ennis's daughter and took the DNA test. Ennis didn't break the astonishing news to Jones until she was absolutely sure, so she arranged a meeting with Lopez at a restaurant.
"My heart just sank [in that moment], because I was just like, 'This is for real,'" recalled Ennis after realizing that Lopez was Jones's biological daughter. She then plucked up the courage to break the news to Jones with the help of her two siblings.
HANDLING THE TRUTH
Ennis knew Jones wouldn't be able to process the truth, and that's what happened. Jones was shattered and dumbfounded. "I could not lose Tina. She'll always be my daughter. I have loved her from the second they laid her in my arms," expressed Jones.
The heartbroken woman shared that she felt she had lost her daughter and grandchildren. But Ennis shared she never planned to leave Jones. "She was afraid she was going to lose me. And she wasn't going to. I wasn't going to leave her," revealed Ennis.
But while Ennis and Jones's relationship remained intact, more heart-wrenching details wrecked Ennis's world. Ennis's biological parents, Joyce and John Brister had died long ago, depriving her of the chance to get to know them.
LIVING WITH THE PAIN
While Lopez and her family shared pictures and stories of the Bristers with Ennis, a part of her longed to embrace them. Both the families continue to process their pain, grief, anger, regret, and newly-found connections.
Jones, Ennis, and Lopez have decided to take legal action against Duncan Regional Hospital (which merged with Duncan Physicians and Surgeons Hospital in 1975) for their recklessness and negligence in the matter.
But because the doctors and nurses involved in 1964 have died, nobody knows how the babies were switched at birth. Ennis and Lopez are still struggling to accept the new family dynamics, even though their children and families now know each other well.
Paula Johnson [Left]; Callie as an infant [Right]. | Source: YouTube.com/OWN
PICKING UP THE PIECES
Over time, Lopez and Jones have found common ground, including their shared love for the color purple, shopping, and estate sales. But despite everything, Jones shared Ennis will always be her daughter.
Indeed, what Ennis, Lopez, and Jones endured for over 50 years is emotionally draining and cumbersome, and we hope these three women can rebuild their new relationships.
Like Jones, a Virginia woman saw her world crumbling to the ground when a DNA test result revealed she had been raising a stranger as her own daughter. Click here to read the complete story.
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